New haircut

So here is the problem, I love going to get my hair done by my cousins wife, Jaada. She does a great job. But she is usually booked out 3 or months in advanced. So the last several times I have had to go somewhere else. No one does my hair quite like Jaada, and the part I like is that I just say, "Do what ever you want" and I trust her to do a good job. I can't get anyone else to do that. So I keep going from person to person trying to find a "Jaada". Last night I went to a new girl and I told her to just trim my hair. She told me that my hair need at least two or three inches cut off. That was fine with me, my hair was getting really yucky. Then she says, but that would be the wrong length for you, it would make you look "boxy", let's cut up to your collar bones. I thought O.K. but if I am going short again I want Jaada to do it, not someone I don't know. This could be scary. As she was cutting she just kept saying,"Is it ok if I go a little shorter?," as she was already in the process of cutting it shorter. So here I am with short hair again. It is hard to get used to. I can't decide whether to be frustrated or not, after all, I have been looking for someone who will just go for it, and give me a cute haircut. But did she go to far?